Matthew 19:6
“Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
SOMETIMES, WE DRIFT THROUGH OUR LIVES AND WE FALL IN AND OUT OF LOVE WITH VARIOUS PEOPLE AND WE “LOVE” THOSE WHO WE LOVE EACH TIME, WITH ALL OF OUR HEARTS. BUT, INDIVIDUALLY= MANY TIMES WE DO NOT RECEIVE THE SAME LOVE AND DEDICATION FROM EACH PARTNER AND SO WE DRIFT APART AND BREAK UP AND SOMETIMES SOME OF US NEVER EVER FIND “THE ONE”…THAT 1/ONE SPECIAL PERSON WHO IS JUST MEANT FOR US TO LIVE OUR LIVES WITH; THAT SPECIAL PERSON WHO CAN RELATE TO OUR CONVERSATIONS, WHO CAN RELATE TO YOU, WHEN THE PREACHER; CALLS YOU A “SORRY RASCAL”: DESPITE YOUR GOING THROUGH HATRED/BIGOTRY/DISCRIMINATION(S) ON THESE JOBS AND IN ALL THESE LIFE PRESSURES AND WHO WILL STICK WITH YOU WHEN YOU GET A “DISEASE MONSTER=DIABETES”, A NEAR DEATH SITUATION, DESPITE MEDICAL ISSUES AND INNER THINGS THAT THE PUBLIC WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND, DESPITE WHAT YOU CHILDREN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND… WHEN A MAN FINDS A BEAUTIFUL WIFE; “THE SOUL MATE” THAT SOME NEVER, EVER FIND… BELIEVE ME; WE ARE “BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED”…
Matthew 19:6
“Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
Proverbs 31:10-31 King James Version (KJV)
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
THIS BEAUTIFUL LADY HAD TO PASS THROUGH APPROVAL BY MY BIG SISTERS AND MOM; VERY EARLY…SO SHE HAD ALREADY PASSED THE TEST, WAY BEFORE THIS PARTICULAR PHOTO… MOM 1ST!….
MY WIFE WAS/IS SOOO CHOOSY…SHE IS A “CHOOSY LOVER”
Choosey LoverThe Isley BrothersGirl, I’m so proud of you
I’m so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I’ll make you so happy
(Thought I had a lover) Thought I had a lover
But I was kiddin’ myself, baby
(By the time I learned about it) By the time I learned the truth about it
She was sleepin’ with someone else, oh, but not you, baby
Choosey lover
Girl, I’m so proud of you
I’m so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I’ll make you so happy
‘Cause you’ve given me (Given me security)
Given me security, baby, and you’re provin’ what you said
(I never worry about you) Never worry about you, baby
Jumpin’ in and out of bed, no, not my baby
Choosey lover (You’re so choosey)
Girl, I’m so proud of you
I’m so glad you chose me, baby (Baby)
And I’ll make you so happy
Choosey lover (You’re so…
THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN COULD HAVE CHOSE LAWYERS, DOCTORS, HIGH PROFILED MEN AND SHE CHOSE ME…BY GOD’S GRACE/LOVE AND MERCY UPON ME…HE WANTED ME TO HAVE WHO “HE CHOSE” FOR ME, AND NOT WHO I THOUGHT I WANTED FOR MYSELF…
Proverbs 16:9 English Standard Version (ESV)
9 The heart of man plans his way,
but the Lord establishes his steps.
IF I TELL/TOLD YOU THIS WAS “NOT” THE PRETTIEST WOMAN/LADY, WHO I WAS “TALKING TO” BACK THEN; OK, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BELIEVE ME; BUT, I WAS STARTING TO FIND OUT WHAT I REALLY NEEDED, IN A WIFE AND A MATE; RATHER THAN WHAT I WANTED…SOME TO “TALK TO”…”SOMEONE WHO BELIEVED IN ME-NOT THE PREACHER=WHO DID NOT REALLY KNOW ME,… “SOMEONE WHO ACCEPTED MY “little/tiny/puny” CHOCOLATE BOODIE WITH ALL OF MY FAULTS AND STRENGTHS… SHE HAD TO UNDERSTAND THAT I AM/WAS “MORE THAN A PAIR OF PANTS/A PAIR OF BRITCHES, MORE THAN A PENIS, OR A CHEAP-QUICK THRILL…AS “TINA TURNER” SAID= “WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?”… WITH MOST PEOPLE; ITS PHYSICAL…. I AM A VERY DEEP THINKER/ANALYZER; INDEPENDENT OF THE MAIN SOCIETY… COULD I BE ABLE TO BREAK DOWN RESEARCH AND KNOWLEDGE AND READ WITH HER AND DISCUSS THINGS WITH HER??? SHE DI NOT HAVE TO BE AS BEAUTIFUL AS SHE REALLY IS, ON T HE OUTSIDE; (A LADY IN DENVER CO. WAS MORE ATTRACTIVE, BUT HAD NO IDEA OF SOME THINGS I TRIED TO TALK WITH HER ABOUT, SO WAS A LADY IN SEATTLE, AND A LADY IN NORTH CAROLINA, AND A LADY IN DALLAS; SEVERAL LADIES IN DALLAS AREAS….ONE WHO LOOKED EVEN MORE LIKE HALLIE BERRY THAN THIS LADY….IF LOOKS WERE JUST THE MAIN ATTRACTION… I HAD SOME OPTIONS…..I HAD PRETTY MUCH RESERVED TO “PLAY THE FIELD AND STAY SINGLE” THEN … “GOD’S” DEEP STERN “IN-MY-HEAD-VOICE” SAID; “HHEEYYY WARRIOR”; “I GOT SOMEONE FOR YOU!! LOOK HERE AND LEARN!!!”
HE MADE ME TALK WITH THIS LADY MORE THAN THE OTHERS, AND TO GET TO KNOW HER, MORE DEEPLY AND TO ASK HER SOME QUESTIONS AND STUFF, AND TELL HER, HOW DOWN THAT I WAS AFTER BEING DECEIVED AND CONFUSED AND NOT SUPPORTED AND UNDER DISCRIMINATION AND WELL; THIS STORY IS KIND OF LONG.. BUT, THE MAIN THING IS:
I AM SO GLAD SHE CHOSE ME, TOO!!!! SSOOO, I HAVE TO PLAY THIS AGAIN:
CHOOSEY LOVER – Isley Brothers
